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May 4th, 2013

Unhealthy Relationships – Recognize the Signs

Safe dating can be described as the practice of healthy, interdependent relationships between individuals. Many relationships, however, are not safe and can lead to real emotional and physical consequences for those individuals in the relationship and those around them. But how do we differentiate between what is “safe” and “unsafe” when it comes to dating? And if we see signs of unsafe dating, what can we do?

  • Drop in academic performance
  • Bite marks, bruises, scratches, or burn marks
  • Truancy
  • Quick and intense involvement in a relationship
  • Changes in mood; either depression or anxiety
  • Acting secretive or acting out
  • Sexually uninhibited or hyper-sexual behavior
  • Apologizing or justifying partner’s behavior, especially his/her temper
  • Rejection or isolation from friends or family
  • Not attending school activities
  • Discontinuing involvement with extra-curricular activities
  • Striving for perfection
  • Preoccupation with appearance
  • Looking uncomfortable or fearful around partner
  • Deferring to partner in mixed company
  • Wanting to control someone else’s decisions
  • Eating disorders or sudden weight loss
  • Personal possessions damaged, missing, or destroyed
  • A pattern of violent relationships
  • School suspension for fighting
  • Involvement with the police
  • Alcohol or drug use
  • Diary entries or social media posts revealing reckless behavior
  • Individuals who are controlling of their partners are more likely to be physically aggressive

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